Pros:
Lots of me time. No this isn't some dirty innuendo.
More time for friends.
Don't have to spend as much money (yayyyy says the cheapo in me).
You can flirt with anyone and everyone.
No relationship problems.
Don't have to report to anyone besides your parents.
You're more open to whatever life may throw at you, que sera sera.
You can focus more on things like school, jobs etc.
Ok these pros sounded better in my head, and they sound lame but honestly they're aren't. I really am glad for those things. I'm happy being single for the time being.
Cons:
(All these are assuming you don't have friends with benefits/bed buddies etc)
No cuddling.
No one special there for you.
No hanging out/talking for hours with a person you love. Although granted you could hang out with your best friend or something. But it's just not the same.
No special anniversary gifts/dates/fun little plans like that.
Sometimes you just want to have someone that doesn't qualify as a friend. They're your lover and your friend and no matter how much you may be happy some days you do want more. Myself included.
So yes I like being single right now and I'm not complaining. But I also would like a relationship maybe sometime in the near future. I want someone to cuddle with and show my love to in a different way than how I show my friends my love for them.
So this post came out pretty lame. I apologize, I don't feel good, I feel like I'm about to fall asleep any minute now. But whateves. I'll be fine and tomorrow we'll talk about something exciting like heart breaks! Yay!
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